northwesternsoul asked:
After a miscarriage in 2013 and another one two days ago, I am beyond distraught. I don't want to leave the house, let alone go to work. Dad is distant now, which makes me angry and just drives us apart more. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to carry on anymore.
I’m so sorry for your losses. The pain is unbearable and wanting to stay home and be alone is so normal. I still feel like that sometimes. Have you communicated to your work about what happened? Some time off may be good for you. Unfortunately, dads do that a lot. SO many relationships end after a loss. Make sure you’re giving him space but also giving him open lines of communication with no judgment. That was really hard for me to do, personally but when I started that it worked. We also went to couples therapy and I honestly say it saved our relationship.
